Happy in the Chase
Careful What You Wish For
look out the window of the hotel. It’s 6:30 am and I see rain falling slantwise, wind whipping the flags on the flagpoles.
I think of what I have said to my husband 2 days earlier Why do these have to be so hard? Why can’t I run a race
without having to battle the elements as well? It was a pure and simple whine. An emotional vent, a rage at the heavens.
Poor me. I get over it. Because you can’t run 26.2 miles feeling sorry for yourself; you might as well not
even start. Suck it up, get your game face on, and roll. Make it a Who is the toughest? Channel your inner Prefontaine.
Make it one for the ages. I ran Boston 2007. I FINISHED
Training for this race was a grind. Spring marathons are the hardest because the training is done in the cold and
dark of winter. And I started in a bit of a hole: the Charlotte Marathon was in mid-December and was followed by some recovery
downtime, a minor injury, and a nasty bout of the flu. The new year dawned with my not having run more than a mile in 3 weeks
and the realization I had less then 4 months to prepare for Boston. And Boston
is special. It’s not like any other race: it’s the big daddy, the Mecca,
the Holy Grail, the “show”, the super bowl of running. Pick your overused cliché; they all work. You run in the
shadow of giants. You breath their air.
My training was flat. I logged more miles than ever, but I was tired. The Richmond/Charlotte
double had taken its toll. There are people who can run marathon after marathon with little time in between. I am not one
of them. I was weary - both mentally and physically - and my training reflected it. Most of it was alone. I missed the company
of Franny and Robin on the long runs. Robin was sidelined with a stress fracture and Franny was taking time off for work and
family obligations. I looked forward to the weeks after Boston
- not the race itself - so I could take a step back from the monster miles, the stomach-burning tempo runs and catch up on
my rest and my life. Boston was supposed to be my victory
lap. In those intervening months of training I thought more than once Be careful what you wish for. I had no time
goals. I wanted to enjoy the run, the course, the crowds. I didn’t want to go for broke and crash. I didn’t want
to run so hard that the course and experience would be nothing more than a tunnel-vision blur. I was guilty of the mortal
sin of covetousness: I wanted that finisher’s medal, nothing more.
With less than a week to go, the weatherman
crashed my most modest of dreams with a single meteorological term that turned my knees to gelatin: Nor’Easter. What
kind of word is that anyway? It sounds like something from Moby Dick. It’s a made-up term for a very real weather phenomenon.
It is inches of rain and strong winds in bone-chilling cold. Sh*t. I wondered about those predicted 30+ mph headwinds,
with 50 mph gusts; Can I take that kind of a beating over 26+ miles? Damn. I joke to my friends, All I prayed
for was "Please, let it not be warm." I guess I should have been a little more specific on the downside. I laugh, I fret,
I cry. There is no way I’m not starting this race. There is no way I’m not finishing. It probably won’t
be pretty. It won’t be perfect. This is life.
I arrive in Boston on Saturday, a day earlier then planned. The forecast for the bad weather has forced
me to change my travel plans. I have wholly committed to running this race. But I have to actually GET to the starting line.
My flight is not direct, and from the segment from Philly to Boston,
there are no less than 4 other runners headed to the start. This gives me hope. When I arrive in Boston, I get my rental car and proceed directly to the runners’ expo at the convention
center. The first order of business is to pick up my race number. I am bib number 17288. I pass the rows of runners with bib
numbers in the 4-digits. I am humbled. I am a piker, a bush-league runner next to them. I find the line with my bib assignment
and pick up my race packet. I then proceed past the rows of runners who have higher bib assignments. My head is held a bit
higher. Faster than you. Faster than you. And you and you and you. Most of the time running is not so much about
being first, but about not being last.
The expo is jammed and frenetic. The highlight is “THE WALL”. Adidas
has their campaign, their “Reason XXX for running the Boston Marathon”. Reasons range from the trite (“Chicks
dig runners”) to the philosophical (“Cheaper than therapy”) to the inspirational (“Running for Joe
who is stationed in Iraq”). Any
runner can grab a “Reason #” bib, write down their reason, and stick it to the wall. I don’t even have to
think about mine. I grab the bib, stick it to the wall, grab the Sharpie hanging from a string and scrawl my reason. I take
a photo to memorialize it. To run in the footsteps of my
dad. - Monica C. #17288
BJ, Erin, and Reen drive with me to the state park at Hopkington. A day earlier, I’d
chatted with a woman who was also staying at our hotel in Waltham.
She was debating with how to get to the start. When I went to the front desk that morning to get a bowl for my 3 packs of
instant oatmeal – my pre-race breakfast of choice – and to check out the howling wind and rain, I see her. Her
parents and husband are in tow. It is 7:00 am. They are headed to Hopkinton. I’m not even dressed for the race. I tell
her Good Luck! Hang in there, stay warm. To myself, I’m thinking ARE YOU CRAZY? It’s over 3 hours
to race time. What do you intend to do? Freeze for the interim? I’m as equal a novice to the race as she, but can’t
help to think – as she fights to open the door against the raging wind – Rookie. It ain’t gonna take
3 hours to get to the start 14 miles away. I’m certainly not being humble, but her caution borders on the absurd.
The look in her eyes transmits nothing but fear. She’s
done before she’s even started.
My phone beeps in volumes those 24 hours before the race. Text messages
flow like the rain outside. From Craig, my dear South African running/coworker I will be sitting in my office with an
umbrella open in support of your gallant and amazing run…From Maria Hey, what’s a little rain and wind
and from Michel, my husband, who aches to be here
U can do it. U know you can. I love you.
I’ve been dropped at the State Park at Hopkinton. All roads in
are closed for all but residents. The sheer volume of runners would overrun a town of this size. Shuttle buses will take us
in from this point. I exit the car with a steady rain falling. I’m in full Gore-Tex rain gear, and old shoes and socks
are on my feet. A quick hug to Erin, Reen, and BJ, and I’m off across the parking lot to get on the first available
After I’m dropped off, I make the half-mile trek to the “Athletes
Village”. It sounds so Olympian, but in reality the athletic fields
and parking lot of the local middle school have been appropriated and packed with a large white tent, more port-a-johns than
can be counted, and school buses for the bag-check. During this half-mile walk, I phone my dad. I know he is concerned about
the weather. I call to tell him that the rain and wind have substantially abated. I don’t want him to worry for the
next few hours. The wind chill is there, but I have dressed for the occasion. The rain is a steady drizzle interrupted by
the occasional downpour, but the weathermen have assured us that it will get better, if colder, as the race progresses. At
the village, I phone my friend Glenn. I’m trying to get a hold of Greta, his wife. He tells me what she’s wearing.
I’m hoping to find her in my staring corral of 1,000. I change into my race shoes, peel off the rain-resistant gear,
and check my bag.
I make the half-mile trek to the start and my corral. I’m making small talk with another runner.
I remember nothing more about her than I’m sure she remembers about me. We’re passing the time, trying to forget
what may lie ahead of us. Wind? Rain? Who knows. Give me the strength. I whisper a plea, a prayer for courage.
the corral, I look for Greta. 1,000 people are in this area. Will I find a blond woman in a Kelly green jacket? With 2 minutes
to the start, I miraculously spot her and make my way to her. My greeting is a frenzied GRETA! WE’RE HERE! CAN YOU
BELIEVE IT! The comfort and calm at seeing her familiar face is enough to distract me from my fear and excitement. The
rain has turned into a drizzle. I’m in the middle of a crowd and the wind more than memory than reality. In hindsight,
I can say I love this moment. We move forward. We are on our way. A woman on a public address system tells us to smile and
wave at the camera, and our shuffle turns to a walk, then to a slow jog, then to a run. I hear the beep of the computers as
our chips pass over the timing mat. We are off. I’ve started my journey to Boston.
keep fallin’ on my head: Miles 1-14
The start is storied for its downhill start. A guy weaves past me at the
start wearing a snorkel and scuba mask. Wiseacre. I have practiced my downhill form during my training, and put it
right to work, repeating to my self Pop, pop, pop, hot like coals to keep my turnover quick and light, and stay off
my heels. I take a quick check of my watch after the first mile and see 9:14. Nice and easy, my muscles are cold and this
is a nice warm-up. At this point, Greta speeds up and I wish her a good race. Running my own race: this was a valuable
lesson I learned in Charlotte, one I don't now intend to forget. And while I don’t feel the wind too much at this point,
I attribute this happy reality to the trees lining the streets and the densely packed crowd of runners. I run in the center
of the road to avoid puddles along the sides. I stick right to the double yellow lines. My own yellow brick road. We’re off to see the Wizard…
By mile two, I am
plenty warm and know my two technical shirts and wind-breaker are too much. Without breaking stride, I manage to remove one
of my shirts and tie it around my waist. While I’d normally ditch it, it was a nice shirt and I’d worn it in Charlotte. It has sentimental value and I don’t have the heart
to throw it away. I’ll pass it to Erin, Reenie, and BJ when I see them.
The running feels easy, and I click my
watch every 5k. I’m not paying particularly close attention to the time, and miles are melting away. I have a very strange
pain in my left ankle which is annoying. It hasn’t hurt up to this race. I write it off as a weird nothing and ignore
In Ashland around mile 4 we encounter some islands
as the road forks. A volunteer with a bullhorn announces Runners to the right. Runners to the right. Funny. I’d
have a hard time believing anyone would make a wrong turn with 16,000+ runners leading the way. Go figure. But as I pass him,
he decides to interject a bit of Boston humor: Runners
to the right. Yankees fans to the left. I laugh and say to two tall men running stride-for-stride next to me Did
you hear that? They shoot me a look and say Why? Are you a Yankees fan? Yikes. They weren’t kidding about
that Sox-Yankees rivalry. No, no, no. I didn’t grow up following baseball. I’m a nothing, a nobody. The
one guy looks at me, and in his heavy Boston accent scolds
me You’re not a nobody today. YOU are running THIS RACE. You ARE somebody today. I smile at him and say Thanks!
Go SOX! It is the nicest thing anyone’s said to me that day.
My goal is to run on autopilot to get to Wellesley College,
which is situated at about the half-way mark. There are stretches of rural road, empty of spectators, but beautiful. The course
has some rolling hills, but certainly nothing like I faced in Charlotte.
I focus on my form, and on the inclines I imagine a man with a fishing rod standing on a lamppost having hooked my shirt.
He’s reeling me up the hills. It’s a great visual to keep my form correct. Lean into the hill, keep my head
up. At the top of the hills, I can plan on a blast of wind.
There are some funny signs along the road, and at
one mile marker one reads Mile 6: Be happy you don’t have bulls chasing you. I laugh out loud. I find I am
smiling all the time. I can’t help it. We run through town squares, and they are packed with people. Before the race
I had worried that the foul weather would keep people away. But as a Boston
native assured me, this race is ingrained in the fabric of this city and its residents. A little wind and rain wouldn’t
keep them away. They don’t disappoint: Adults hold signs, scream at anyone who ventures near. A Florida’s worth
of orange slices are held out for anyone who needs energy, as are jelly beans, gummy bears, water. Children at the sides of
the roads keep their hands out, hoping for a slap. I veer over and hit as many as I can.
Around mile 7 it starts to
rain. Not hard, thankfully. A song pops in my head that Erin and I had been singing a day earlier on the way to pick up Reenie
at the airport, a classic by Burt Bacharach:
keep fallin' on my head
And just like the guy whose feet are too big for his bed
Nothin' seems to fit
are fallin' on my head, they keep fallin'
It makes me think of all the worrying I had done about the weather.
I had expected the absolute worst, but I’m running in conditions that are pretty decent.
So I just did me some talkin' to the sun
And I said I didn't like the
way he got things done
Sleepin' on the job
Those raindrops are fallin' on my head, they keep fallin'
dad had called me the Saturday and Sunday leading up to the race. I could sense some urgency in his voice as he read the articles
about the weather. Will they cancel the race? They haven’t done it in 110 years. You could get hypothermia. Be careful.
Pace yourself. The winds are going to be bad. I reassured him that I had bought an entire duffel bag’s worth of
gear, that I had closely monitored the weather, and that if I had to wear an entire gore-tex suit to stay dry, I would. Erin,
ever the rational, reasonable judge, was also there to provide wise counsel. And Reen, all heart has chimed in Quit yer
*****en. You’ll be fine. I was feeling good. I was in Boston.
Nothing would keep me from this race.
one thing I know
The blues they send to meet me won't defeat me
It won't be long till happiness steps up to greet me
conditions could have been so, so much worse, and all my worrying has amounted to nothing but wasted energy.
Raindrops keep fallin' on my head
But that doesn't mean my eyes will
soon be turnin' red
Cryin's not for me
'Cause I'm never gonna stop the rain by complainin'
Because I'm free
After a couple of easy miles, the rain stops. I pass the half marathon point and look at my watch:
1:58:06. Wow. Didn’t think I was on a sub 4 pace. Before long, we enter Wellesley.
We pass an open athletic field of a school, and the wind is pounding. I tuck myself off the shoulder of a taller runner. And
then I hear it: A roar in the distance. I smile and know I’m coming up to the famed “Scream Tunnel” at Wellesley College.
takes a full half mile to get there, and these women do not disappoint. I work with a Wellesley
graduate, and I think to myself Mary, these women are doing you proud. They scream and hold Kiss me signs.
A man in shorts bearing the Texas flag stops at least a
dozen times to grant their wish. I slap some hands and the screaming is deafening. Their enthusiasm kills the whipping winds,
falling rains. We all feel something more in our steps. These women scream their siren song, but their bewitching tune is
one that propels us forward, not crashing into the rocks. They are extraordinary. My ears ring for minutes after.
I look, I see your face
My sisters Erin and Reenie flew in from out of town to cheer me on. My sister Nicole has small
children at home; her presence here is an impossibility. I miss her. The course is packed with spectators throughout. But
if you want to move from mile to mile, it not particularly spectator-friendly. My friend, BJ, had taken the day off of work
to squire them about. I’ve known him for years. He is family and my kids refer to him as “Uncle BJ”. After
consulting train maps, they have concluded they could probably make it to one or two stops, but not until later in the course.
I have told them that I’d rather see them later than sooner, and any time after Wellesley
would be fine.
My thighs are starting to ache. Wow, kinda early. Those early downhill miles – despite
being run with care – are taking their toll. OK, this is going to hurt. Embrace the pain. Smile when you do. After
passing through the scream tunnel, I spend the miles scanning the crowd for Erin, Reenie and BJ. I figure they’ll probably
be in the famed “Newton Hills”. But I search them out anyway. I’m also looking for a port-a-john that doesn’t
have a line. At mile 15 and change, there is a screaming downhill into Lower
Newton Falls. I’d driven
it the day before and again chant my down-hill mantra. At the bottom of the hill, I see a free port-a-john. Someone sneaks
in just before me, and I curse. I hate, hate, hate losing time like this. And I hate that I always seem to have to stop. But
I also know something else: the first of the four famed hills is just up ahead.
The evening before the race, my sisters
and I have eaten a wonderful meal at one of my favorite restaurants in Waltham,
‘The Tuscan Grille’. We were joined by BJ, and my dear friends Dan and Tammy Smith. It is a wonderful, laid-back
gathering. I attack the breadbasket with gusto, even have a glass of beer. It feels like family, this gathering of ours. I
have a view of the front door, and while we are eating, a man walks in. I do a double take. Erin!
Reenie! Look at that guy that just walked in. The one in the beige Boston Marathon
ball cap. Doesn’t he look EXACTLY like dad? I have so wanted my dad to be here to witness this event. He had run
so many Boston Marathons, and despite his retiring from the sport 20 years ago, he is still - to this day - my running inspiration.
But having returned from California the day before, his getting to Boston the next day is impossible. And yet here is his spirit. The same white beard and mustache.
And the Boston Marathon cap to boot. We laugh at this coincidence.
I bolt from the port-a-john and make my way to the
base of first hill. I’d driven these hills three times before the race, and they are familiar. The jury is split on
these hills. Ask Boston veterans about them and half will
say They’re no big deal and the other half will rule They are death incarnate. As I drive them each
time, I find that the truth lies somewhere between these two poles. I’ve trained hills, both up and down. Nasty, gnarly,
steep, gut-churning hills. I throw them in the latter parts of long runs to simulate what I’ll face at in this race.
My friend Robin has warned me.
As I approach the first hill, I’m still scanning the crowds for my own personal
cheering section. I turn to my left and there – standing all alone – at the base of the first hill, is the man
I’ve seen at the restaurant the evening before. He is even wearing the ball cap. I laugh out loud I can’t
wait to tell ‘em this one! I know my dad is following every step of this race, checking my splits. He’s probably
driving his wife Marlene nuts. And I know – know to my bones – that when he sees the next split, he won’t
think the delay is due to fatigue, but to my cranky gut.
The man with the fishing pole pulls me up the first hill.
Wow. That really wasn’t that bad. At all. I look down at my wrist and see the blue and yellow friendship bracelet
my son Jean-Marc has made me, just for this race. I smile and think of him. He, Luc, Madeleine, and Michel: they are right
here with me. There’s a bit over a mile to the turn at the Newton Fire Station and the second hill. The crowds are thicker,
and pushing into the streets. So many of these people are looking for someone, a racer out there on this course. I scan the
road looking for my crew. They have 6 eyes, I have 2. Keep on looking. You’ll find them. They’ll find you.
I see hundreds of faces, all friendly, none familiar. I pass the Newton-Wellesley
Hospital on my right. So not going there today. On my left is
the stately Woodland Country Club. Oh, for the 19th hole. I’m feeling surprisingly good. I’m blissfully
unaware of my time and am confident going into these hills. The second one is the steepest. I make the turn onto Commonwealth Avenue at the Newton Fire Station. The assault and
ascent to Heartbreak Hill have begun.
Running over heartache
I’ve been smiling non-stop since the start
of the race. I can’t help it; this is the unexplainable magic that is the Boston Marathon. I start up the second hill,
the steepest in terms of grade, and I still smile. This isn’t that bad. Just keep going. In between the hills
are sections of flat or downhill. In my head, I approach them as intervals. Two down, two to go. Regroup and attack on
the next hill. The crowds are thick on both sides of the streets. They stand or sit in chairs. Some have drinks, others
have pom-poms, signs, balloons. With their voices and presence, they carry us all over these hills.
At the base of
the third hill, a man is running next to me. He turns my way. You look like you are enjoying this way too much. We are
on the Newton Hills, you know. I have been smiling since my first step on this course. I can’t help it! How
can you not smile out here! Look at these people! At my qualifying race the temperature was 19 degrees at the start. There
were maybe 1,000 runners in the race. The course was empty of spectators from the half to the finish! He asks me where
I qualified. I give him the Readers’ Digest version of my Richmond/Charlotte double. He laughs and points to his shirt:
it is a Richmond Marathon race shirt. You’re kidding – you were at that race?! These spirits: they are
all over the course.
I reach mile 20. The clock reads 3 hours and something. I don’t remember. Was it 3:02? :03?
:04? I neither know, nor care. Six months before this race I would have been painfully aware not only the hours and minutes,
but of the seconds. What has happened to me? From where has this inner peace come?
Ten days before the race, during
my last long run, I’ve had an epiphany: I will dedicate these hills – particularly “Heartbreak Hill”
- to those who are suffering heartache. Winter is the lean season. It is cold and dark. It is the time we use to remind us
of how much we love the light, the warmth. Raised Catholic, I am aware of this time of Lenten sacrifice. In the grander scheme,
this race is a caprice. I am lucky to be able to participate in it with such joy and abandon. I offer this very humble sacrifice
to these people. I know each hill will take minutes to climb, and that they are undergoing pain that lasts so much longer:
my dear friend recently diagnosed with breast cancer. She is the mother of two young boys, and she and her English-born husband
are a treasure to us here in America.
Her Irish pluck and grace give all of us pause. Before undergoing her double lumpectomy, she informs her surgeon Make
the girls look good. I have a party to attend this weekend. She is extraordinary.
Mom. She is suffering through
the latter stages of dementia. She no longer remembers where I live, how many children I have or what their names and sexes
are, the name of my husband of 20 years. She lives in a nightmare of confusion and fear.
De. My feisty brother-in-law.
He has recently dubbed my “Spider Legs”. He’s a quietly funny guy who makes the best popovers and grilled
chicken on the planet. He adores my sister, Erin. He lost his only sibling, several years ago. He injured his back –
including a fractured vertebrae - in the early autumn and has been living in pain 24-7.
Jon. My brother-in-law
is burying his father this day. His dad has recently lost a horrific battle with cancer. He was in his mid-80’s when
he passed, his family with him at the end.
Franny’s mom. My dear friend Franny, “Miss Daisy”.
Her mother has been recently diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. She is a warm, wonderful, and artistically talented woman,
and her children are amazing, each of them. They are generous, solid, and strong, full of faith in and love for each other.
A wonderful family.
Robin’s mom who is battling lung cancer. Robin is my other rock. Solid, strong as iron,
smart and sassy. I wouldn’t be here without her.
Cody, my friend Mickey’s son. 4 years old and recovering
from stage IV neuroblastoma. Stem-cell transplants, hearing decimated by chemotherapy. Mickey runs his first marathon wearing
a shirt with the words “CODY IS MY REASON”. A living nightmare for parents. They live month-to-month, worrying
about recurrence, praying to God to spare their son.
Kirk, another running friend, who has just buried his mother.
approach the base of Heartbreak Hill. I am at mile 21 and a bit. I feel good. I start the ascent and feel the backward pull
of gravity. Reel me in, Ishmael. I start my chant. I say these names as inspiration, as prayer, Gill Mom De Jon
Franny’s mom Robin’s mom Mick Cody Kirk. Gill Mom De Jon Franny’s mom Robin’s mom Mick Cody Kirk.
Gill Mom De Jon Franny’s mom Robin’s mom Mick Cody Kirk. I say these names over and over in my head, occasionally
whispering them as I climb. Toward the end of this half mile climb, I condense it to one name, and I sound like the small
‘engine that could” Gill Gill Gill Gill
Gill Gill Gill.
The top of Heartbreak Hill is an illusion. You think you’re done, but then another small
ascent challenges your grit. I have driven these hills and I know that when I see the steeples of Boston College I am done. I crest the first
hill and keep charging. I turn a corner and see the steeples. I’ve never felt the second bit of incline. The hills are
over. My legs are fine; I’ve not only survived, I’m ready to roll. Amen.
Hustle and Flow
The Boston College students are out in force. They
are raucous with energy, youth, and beer. I am lucky to be running near one of their own. They scream JOSH!!!! RUN JOSH!!!
They have outstretched hands and I slap so many. I look to the steeples of the BC church, and as I turn the curve of
the road feel a strong gust of wind. Then I hear it: MONICA! FEVE! GO RUN GO!!!! I turn and see Erin, Reenie and
BJ. I dart to them and they protest WHY ARE YOU STOPPING? I untie my lucky shirt from my waist and empty the pockets
of my windbreaker. Feeling great! I’m outta here! I’m off. It’s a steep downhill and I pump my
arms. Leg muscles be damned, we’ve got 4-something miles to go and it’s time to grind it out. At the 35 km split,
I look at my watch. It reads 3:20:21. Holy shlt! If I hustle, I can break 4:00! I’ve lost my ability to do
precise math; I can’t figure exactly how much time I have to make up, but I start to move. A commuter train runs along
the road. It is packed with people. I look up ahead to my left and see two runners, a rope tied around each one of their waists.
They wear matching orange shirts. One reads Guide, the other Visually Impaired. They are both walking between
the trolley tracks. As I pass, I pat the blind runner’s back. You’re doing great! The spectators scream
inspiration to this duo. Amazing. He is running this without seeing all that is before him. He can’t see the
crowds, the buildings, the hills.
Somewhere around mile 23, I see the Prudential
Building. The race finishes directly in front of it. Oh I am so close.
Then I see the CITGO sign. The crowds are getting deeper. At an intersection, 3 college-aged kids bolt in front of me, pizza
boxes in hand. We nearly collide. Taken out by 3 large cheese and pepperoni. If I could, I would have laughed out
At mile 24, the 3 gels and the sickly sweet Gatorade I’ve consumed throughout the course wreak havoc.
A wave of nausea rises up: I have over-carbed. Screw it. Do your best. You can puke at the finish. I’m really
tired now, and I know I’ve got to manage this as best I can. Go too fast, and I’ll be heaving at the side of the
road before the finish. Go too slow, and I’ll not only NOT break 4:00, I wont re-qualify for next year. We get to Kenmore Square. Holy cow, how will this end? Apparently,
there is a hill going into Kenmore square. I never feel it. I’m running as fast as
I can without ending in ignobility on the side of the road. And then I see it, a yellow sign of hope 1 MILE TO GO.
don’t know how I will react at the finish. Will it be like my first marathon – blissful, thankful disbelief? I
know it won’t be like my second at Marine Corps, a grueling disappointing crawl. Will it be like Charlotte, the joyous, tearful shout of redemption? I don’t think so. It’s exciting,
a drama played out in real time. My mind is focused, joyous and happy despite the nausea Living the dream! I am LIVING
THE DREAM! How often do we get to do this? How often do any of us get to live our dreams? The road dips under Mass Avenue. I see a woman in a pink running skirt ahead of me,
and I make a dash for her. We make a quick right on to Hereford Avenue
and a short block later, a left onto Boylston. A quick glance at my watch and I see 3:57:something. Oh man. I see the finish line, a blue and yellow arch. I pump my arms. The crowds
are ten or more deep. I’m sure the cacophony of voices is deafening. I hear nothing. Nothing. I’m running, running,
running. My legs are on fire. My stomach is in my throat. I’m getting that medal. I’m steps from the finish line.
What is Spring? Is it a season, an aligning
of stars, a state of mind? In my faith, we have celebrated spring with the Easter feast a short week and a day before I toed
the starting line of this race. Spring is the conclusion of the dark season, the end to fast and sacrifice. It is the hope
and promise of renewal, the warmth of longer sunlit days, the promise of redemption and salvation. The day before Easter,
snow fell in Richmond Virginia,
the first and only snow of the year. I ran that day and saw cotton fluffs on the pink and white blossoms of cherry and dogwood.
Neighbors were out, walking on the roads as the sun broke and we marveled at this anachronism, this oddity and fit of Mother
Nature. She awes us with her ferocity, tempestuousness, and beauty. On Patriots Day in 2007, I have found all of these. Whatever
I feared before the start of this journey – a journey that started back in December – is dissolved in the magic
and healing that is faith and belief and hope. Whatever nature decided to put down as speed bumps on this course – be
it wind, rain, or cold - are negated by the warm embrace of those who love and believe in me. The mountains that challenge
me on this day – mountains of reality or myth – are humbled by the courage and example of those who grace my life
I cross the finish line, arms up. I laugh out loud and celebrate all that is renewal and strength and energy
and life. I look at my watch, at the 4:00:10, and am not disappointed at not finishing under four hours. As in my first marathon,
I am again reminded that the reward of the journey is not at the moment and measurement of its completion, but at the gifts
that have been so generously bestowed upon me along the way.
I am a Boston Marathon finisher. But I am more than that:
I am a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister, a friend. I’m smiling, and I am wholly content.