Sue, that is a tough situation. It's really amazing and could be considered scary how much information is out there on us just in online race results.
I would even say it's good to be able to “say it” to trusted confidants. There are just some risks of doing so in a too public place. I don't think some people realize how many people actually visit this site anonymously (I think it's a great thing they can visit and read good advice but all it takes is a tiny percentage of ill intentioned people and you could have one or two here) and I'm not even going to try to claim that it's a high traffic site. I don't want to scare anyone away from this site or others, including more busy ones, but it is a fact of life we should be aware of.